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ERWC Webinar: Consistent Success in Race Conversations (Matthew Kay) - Shared screen with speaker view
Gloria Dumler
38:15
I am from Bakersfield College.
Eric Ginsberg (he/him)
38:15
San Diego.
Madeline Majsterek
38:17
Nick Majsterek - Ellensburg, WA Hello!
Kaitlyn Hagan
38:17
Chico California
Lauren Bassard
38:18
Castro Valley
Tabitha Needham
38:18
Bakersfield
Kara (she/her)
38:20
Napa Valley
Jennifer McIntyre
38:20
Vancouver, WA
Christine Roux
38:21
Ellensburg high School
Sheila
38:23
HI, I am Sheila from Los Angeles, CA
Walton, Edwina
38:23
Los Angeles
Rebecca Bledsoe-Santaella
38:23
Bakersfield
Bailey Heffernan
38:24
Temecula, CA
Jessica Makin
38:24
San Diego
Juan Vazquez
38:24
Hemet, CA
Cathy Maretti
38:27
Chico, CA
Robby
38:27
Sacramento
Amy Sutherland
38:27
Ellensburg HS, WA
Kim Flachmann
38:28
Kim Flachmann, CSU Bakersfield
Diane Wilson
38:28
San Fernando Valley, CA
Noel
38:29
Rancho Cucamonga
chariesk gudgad
38:31
Bakersfield
Kayla Feather
38:34
San Diego, CA
Krofta, Julie
38:35
Simi Valley CA
Kelsie Hanson
38:36
Chico, ca
Nelson Graff (he, him, his)
38:38
Monterey, unceded territory of the Essalen people
Loux, Susan
38:43
Riverside, CA
Roozeboom, Stacey
38:49
Chaffey Joint Union High School District, So. Cal
Tanner Harris
38:49
Bakersfield
Melissa Moreno (she/her/hers)
38:55
Porterville, CA (Central Valley)
Meline
38:59
Meline. I teach in Temecula, which is in SoCal.
Jorge Espinoza
39:03
Jorge Espinoza Fallbrook CA
Diane Wilson
39:08
@Jennifer- I use so many of your lesson supports in all my classes!
Roozeboom, Stacey
39:23
Chaffey Joint Union High School District, So. Cal
Sheila
39:45
This time works well.
Lauren Bassard
39:51
The later time is better.
Robby
39:59
I prefer 4:00.
Cathy Maretti
40:16
4:00 is better for me, but still glad you're doing this webinar.
Lynn Schaulis
41:20
Grateful for all the efforts behind tonight’s webinar!
melissa murphy
42:54
Absolutely. Thank you!
Jennifer Fletcher
43:12
For more information on ERWC, please visit https://writing.csusuccess.org/
Debra Robinson
45:18
Tonight’s webinar is part one of a two-part series and will conclude with Nelson Graff’s March 23rd (4pm PST) webinar on implementing discussion protocols.
Jennifer Fletcher
45:20
You’ll also find info and posts by colleagues on our blog, including a couple on Matt’s book, _Not Light, But Fire_ (erwc.blog).
Lynn Schaulis
46:47
That’s the essential question - what is our role in this moment?
Lynn Schaulis
47:50
@Matthew - Thank you for RISING to this moment in a larger educator community despite the fatigue and daily pressures you must be under.
Debra Robinson
48:15
Matt will be monitoring the chat throughout his presentation. Feel free to post your comments here instead of the Q & A area.
285334
50:33
How do I approach Young's "Barbershop"? This is an ERWC staple.
Madeline Majsterek
51:33
On teaching: lose the class for the day (week?), impact is lost time and engagement
Jennifer Fletcher
51:55
This metaphor works for me as a baseball mom. There are lots of ways to have a productive at bat.
Matthew Kay
53:02
Please confirm in the chat that you can hear it
Nelson Graff (he, him, his)
53:09
Yes
Jessica Makin
53:11
yes
Matthew Kay
53:12
thanks!
Melissa Moreno (she/her/hers)
53:14
yes
E. Roque
53:15
👌
Rebecca Bledsoe-Santaella
53:19
yes
Sheila
53:23
I hear it
Cathy Maretti
53:56
Ouch.
melissa murphy
54:03
OMG
285334
56:47
The labels are the problem.
Christine Roux
57:37
Yiksers. Dislike all these people. None, nothing, and nope.
Nelson Graff (he, him, his)
57:38
I can imagine a student feeling not seen, which could lead to that student worrying about how the teacher sees them. The teacher might feel awkward and guilty and overcompensate with the student in the future (or avoid speaking to the student). If it’s not handled well, it can lead to barriers to relating and learning. And yes, I’ve done this pretty recently (though with a colleague rather than a student).
Roozeboom, Stacey
57:38
If this was a classroom, and the woman was the teacher, the question from the student is, “How come you haven’t noticed a HUGE part of my identity? Do you know who I am?”
Bailey Heffernan
57:38
This kind of situation has the potential to make someone feel horribly about themselves.
Kara (she/her)
57:38
The person feels invisible, vulnerable, put on the spot, not feeling like they can trust the other...
Meline
57:38
A kiddo needed me to listen about a health problem and I jumped to problem-solving in a way that was dismissive of her feelings. She did not share with me again.
Jennifer Fletcher
57:38
When I’ve messed up like this, it creates stress and embarrassment that can get in the way of relationships and collaboration. It drains some energy and trust.
Madeline Majsterek
57:38
On teaching: lose the class for the day (week?), impact is lost time and engagement, and spending time and energy to bring them back into the fold
Sheila
57:38
Social awkwardness and a lack of understanding. There was a missed opportunity to learn, However, the learning opportunity or lesson here is avoid making assumptions. Instead, move into academic inquiry.
Lynn Schaulis
57:38
Just feeling the division here - being challenged for not being ______ enough. And having to “prove” an identity or affinity…
Melissa Moreno (she/her/hers)
57:38
A student would be mortified to have this play out in front of their peers! And they would probably not have the courage to confront the teacher about it in the moment… or otherwise.
Cathy Maretti
57:38
That would clearly make some quiet as they feel the discomfort of their fellow student. Especially mixed race students would feel the awkwardness of that exchange.
Diane Wilson
57:39
The fact that the woman tried to play off and justify her gaff creates distrust if this happened in a classroom- if you whiff- own it.
Amy Sutherland
57:39
Man, I’m still processing that video… I’m imagining that the impact this could have would be, in a sense, a dehumanizing down to the stereotype...
Louise Herington
57:39
Kids are pretty forgiving when we mess up - especially when they know we are trying and our heart is in the right place. I’ve done plenty of mistakes and we all learn I think.
Lauren Bassard
57:39
This reminds me of times people who had spoke with me on the phone were surprised that I was black when we met in person. Or when salespeople came to our family business looking for the owner and couldn't accept that the owner was Black...
Kelsie Hanson
57:39
Impact on relationships - might push some students away & not want them to open up in class any longer, especially if they don’t feel seen or if they feel misunderstood. I’ve done this & have been humbled by it
Susan Carle
57:40
First period
Kaitlyn Hagan
57:41
1)impact on relationship, would be some loss of trust and feeling misunderstood on the student’s part. High schoolers already feel misunderstood and this would be a confirmation for this student. 2) they might stop listening to you because the no longer trust you
seth law
57:41
It may feel like the teacher isn't as aware as they make themselves out to be.
Jessica Makin
57:42
Negatively impact relationships to extent that can completely change the nature and look of the relationship. How can you learn from a figure who espouses such words, biases, and beliefs? How can you teach with such a race appropriated lens?...
Jackie Hatzke
57:42
This mishap has a negative impact on teaching and learning because now there is a responsibility of the teacher to take ownership of the offense and the level of respect and understanding is Iost.
Kayla Feather
57:44
I have very limited experience in the classroom and Student Teacher. I think it limits how a person should feel they can express themselves
E. Roque
57:48
On relationships-this type of assumption can divide or it can bring people closer, depends on a person’s tolerance…I have had this happen to my son on different levels…
Ms. Nataly Garcia
58:19
The impact of a moment like this could last in a students world forever. I can see why she felt the need to address his 'vibe' because she assumed he was not black but the issue I see is that if a person is white presenting, that does not give anyone the right to Invalidate their culture or ethnicity or heritage (just because they don't look like it)
melissa murphy
59:00
Impact on teachings… how do you recover from that?
Nelson Graff (he, him, his)
01:00:29
How often do we assume that students with Spanish surnames speak Spanish?
Lauren Bassard
01:01:23
How would you phrase the apology?
Lynn Schaulis
01:01:25
Appreciate you framing as we ARE always making assumptions as humans as a way to “organize our world”
A Garrett
01:01:56
I’m still not sure I accept the while cultural appropriation thing. Where does it stop?
Nelson Graff (he, him, his)
01:03:01
I see it too, but I wonder if she saw him as a White man appropriating Blackness whether she felt it was important to take him down a peg?
E. Roque
01:03:02
After 20+ years of teaching, I DO NOT assume anything about my students! They have dealt with stereotypes and being marginalized quite a bit by the time they get to me in high school. I just want us all to love each other and be to count on one another for the 180 days I have them!
Kelsie Hanson
01:03:45
I definitely agree with apologizing. I think it’s so important to open up to students & show vulnerability… we are human & in saying sorry & acknowledging that we were wrong & are remorseful, we are acknowledging their feelings as well, which will help build back up that relationship
E. Roque
01:04:08
Apologizing can be healing…
Lynn Schaulis
01:04:10
Classroom such a fragile place - and students so often uncensored and learning how to navigate the world
Melissa Moreno (she/her/hers)
01:04:10
I struggle with it.
chariesk gudgad
01:04:10
Being on the other side of this, it does feel very mean, to put it plainly?
Nelson Graff (he, him, his)
01:04:58
I could imagine doing that.
Lynn Schaulis
01:06:50
As an instructional coach - have seen way too much sarcasm directed at teens in a multitude of classes and it’s so uncomfortable, painful for me to witness the spectator sport these exchanges become. Not just the teacher and student involved - the whole class is present
Nelson Graff (he, him, his)
01:06:54
I can hear
Debra Robinson
01:06:56
Hear it
Meline
01:12:19
Metaphor is zero sum. I
A Garrett
01:12:37
I CANNOT even believe this crap is happening today. But how about us who don’t do this type racist crap? I have bigger questions. I am someone who needs more relevant questions answered. Who do I direct those toward?
Debra Robinson
01:12:51
It’s like watching the video of the experiment where the little kids choose between the white and black doll. As part of an initiative on establishing equity in schools, it is tuning that the presenters failed to realize how demeaning the videos were to teachers of color. A complete turn off. Invalidated everything they said afterwards. The determining factor was how could they right the wrong the children observed about the world. What came next?
Christine Roux
01:13:12
Feelings block learning. Emotional upset. Anger, more feelings that block learning.
Nelson Graff (he, him, his)
01:13:12
The children of color already know that they are disadvantaged. Activities like this just make them feel that issue more clearly and have it called out publicly in the classroom, perhaps making them feel it more strongly. The White students can always blame their position on “the way the questions were worded” and excuse themselves from any privilege. So while it illustrates an important issue, it doesn’t have the intended emotional impact, and it can lead to worse feelings all around.
Kayla Feather
01:13:13
This is closer to a strike because it already makes a group that is impacted by racism and privilege that much more alienated. I think it also reinforces the privileged groups more. I think the white and more privileged students did not make the direction connect to race and privilege, but instead related it back to fairness. Where as our students in the back right away said this is not fair and were making those connections because they experience them everyday.
Kara (she/her)
01:13:13
Students are left to feel powerless, embarrassed in front of their peers, confused, feeling hopeless about the "race"....
Diane Wilson
01:13:13
This might leave a lot of students feeling awkward- angry-or disinterested (because they “got it” before it even started). If the teacher can’t take the discussion to a level where everyone feels empowered, it might feel like a strikeout to certain students.
Amy Sutherland
01:13:13
It seems like it paints the issue in negative terms; ie, the focus on divisions. I don’t know if that’s right, but that was my impression. I think that impact could be...
Melissa Moreno (she/her/hers)
01:13:13
I was struck by the last boy’s response: “the way the questions were posed.” I don’t think the lesson had the intended impact on all students. Also, there was no call to action for the kids who were left feeling bad about themselves…
Roozeboom, Stacey
01:13:13
Students can feel singled out, ashamed and humiliated. I wonder if they could have offered suggestions for getting everyone to the same starting line before they raced.
Juan Vazquez
01:13:13
I feel this type of activity could create some turmoil between classmates as they begin to realize that they are not equal. It could lead to further negative feelings about they're own self-worth and whether or not they are treated fairly in society.
Jessica Makin
01:13:13
I hate this activity so much. It needs to be prefaced and encircled with empathy, care, and true conversation. This can be so unbelievably alienating and hurtful; You can literally see the brokenness on the girl's face. The discussion around this is not guided and can also be extremely painful. I agree entirely with you, Matt, that this is much much closer to a strikeout.
Cathy Maretti
01:13:13
It highlights the inequality, but marginalizes even more those who feel the unfairness and probably doesn't really teach a lesson to those with privilege.
Jennifer Fletcher
01:13:13
Students don’t need simulations to experience racism or privilege. These are real things.
Lynn Schaulis
01:13:14
Strikeout is not prefacing the activity with how people might feel; inadequate “debrief,” and then still “run the race”?! Strikeout = I can’t learn from this insensitive teacher the rest of the year and I resenting my classmates who didn’t respond as I hoped they would.
Lauren Bassard
01:13:14
I think this exercise destroys the atmosphere of community I seek to build in the classroom. I wonder if it is age appropriate? The students appear to be 5-6th, maybe seventh graders.
Kaitlyn Hagan
01:13:14
I think it could be a strike out because it doesn’t really explain the effects of those questions — it’s more complicated than just having someone ask “what are you?” It also puts kids on the spot.
Sheila
01:13:14
This singles out the minorities who already have strikes against them. It affirms privilege This activity would work better for everyone who has the same background and are given biographical cards requiring them to pretend to have a different background.
chariesk gudgad
01:13:19
It’s closer to a strike-out because it’s calling children out on how far behind (or forward?) their place is in the world and not only making them come to terms with it themselves but also letting others in the class know just how advantageous or DISadvantageous they are to each other. It very much feels like an activity to make non-pocs realize the difference whereas poc’s already understand this idea from the get-go
Mary Killeen Pena
01:13:28
It is close to strikeout because the activity means to highlight the negative impact of white privilege, but the activity seems to only highlight and project the trauma marginalized students already experience. It is just mirroring the positions in society that these children experience, and it seems like the lesson would not really have as much of an impact on the white students, who are truly the students who need to be learning about white privilege. Marginalized students already know they are marginalized.
Rebecca Bledsoe-Santaella
01:13:39
The students felt the questions favored some students over others, so it seems closer to a strikeout.
Jennifer McIntyre
01:13:42
Lynn, I agree with what you said about inadequate preparation.
E. Roque
01:13:45
Anytime you divide people based on class, gender, race…it creates an us vs. them. Most children -and adults, are not keen on being “them” it builds a lifelong feeling of feeling marginalized.
Gloria Dumler
01:14:23
I agree with everyone about the effects of an activity like this.
Meline
01:14:27
Don’t like how the activity would make kids feel; do not like the metaphor that underpins.
melissa murphy
01:14:32
It’s closer to a strike out because you’ve just alienated students in front of everyone and reinforced what they already know about race in society.
A Garrett
01:14:49
But what about us who don’t go this? I want to know how to be better with what I do teach. I teach Young’s “Barbershop”. How do you suggest a white person address this?
Debra Robinson
01:18:12
Garrett, feel free to add your questions to the chat. Or engage Matt at the email address he provided at the start of the session.
A Garrett
01:18:33
I don’t feel your audience would ever do such things. I feel those who teach in the ERWC are more open minded than these examples.
A Garrett
01:19:25
Debra, how? I’m not sure how to do that. I would love too!!!
Debra Robinson
01:20:03
Those are beautiful sentiments. Send me your email address, and I will email you the contact info if he doesn’t present it again.
A Garrett
01:20:20
Gotcha. Email. I’ll do that.
Lynn Schaulis
01:20:41
This is such great metaphor - connection.
Jennifer Fletcher
01:21:30
Folks who use Twitter can DM Matt @MattRKay.
A Garrett
01:22:28
Debra, Yes, please send his email. Thank you!!
Jennifer Fletcher
01:23:03
#DisruptTexts is great for book ideas!
Jennifer Fletcher
01:24:41
Btw the ERWC literacy conferences (same program in So Cal and Nor Cal) will be June 21-22 in Pomona and June 27-28 in San Jose.
Rebecca Bledsoe-Santaella
01:24:55
Is this recording going to be posted, so we can watch it again?
Jennifer Fletcher
01:25:28
Yes! The recording will be posted in the ERWC Online Community.
Rebecca Bledsoe-Santaella
01:25:35
Thank you!
Nelson Graff (he, him, his)
01:26:27
So powerful!
Rebecca Bledsoe-Santaella
01:26:38
I agree.
Sheila
01:27:11
Yes, we can sometimes be unwaringly insensitive.
melissa murphy
01:27:29
Love that text thread. I gave students the option to opt IN to the conversation and let others who didn’t want to ask questions or talk to go to a breakout room. One positive thing about Zoom.
Nelson Graff (he, him, his)
01:27:48
Be careful about what we assume about what our students need!
Jennifer McIntyre
01:27:49
My students need some serious social emotional support and a lot of understanding. I also don't really know what they need right now. They are tired, checked out, and disengaged. It's almost like the need "not school"--Whatever that would mean.
LaResha Richardson
01:27:51
I love that question
Marcus Croom
01:27:53
Excellent examples.
Nelson Graff (he, him, his)
01:28:13
kairos
Jennifer Fletcher
01:28:22
I’m going to keep repeating this question. And ask it as a parent, too.
Amy Sutherland
01:29:35
Oh, that phrase is GOOD.
Sheila
01:29:55
Yes, I like that question, Jennifer
Melissa Moreno (she/her/hers)
01:30:51
Oof.
Jennifer Fletcher
01:31:56
Same with Brave New World
Diane Wilson
01:33:29
@Matt- you’re psychic- I’m going through the masks in LotF tomorrow! Now it will be better.
Diane Wilson
01:33:46
We’re also reading “We Wear the Mask” by Dunbar.
Debra Robinson
01:34:23
One of my favorite poems.
Jennifer Fletcher
01:34:36
Thank you, Diane! Good to see you here. 🙂
Debra Robinson
01:35:32
REMINDER: Tonight’s webinar is part one of a two-part series and will conclude with Nelson Graff’s March 23rd (4pm PST) webinar on implementing discussion protocols.
Lynn Schaulis
01:36:05
@Jennifer McIntyre- keep asking, keep reflecting, and keep “feeling” them as you clearly are. The effects of pandemic times, social justice movements, and horrific political climate - most of our schools perhaps without “the right equipment” (and the right players on the team)
E. Roque
01:36:06
Thank you! Fascinating discussion!
Roozeboom, Stacey
01:36:09
Matthew Kay is always on fire! Thank you!
Jennifer Fletcher
01:36:12
A quick reminder before we wrap up: ERWC Literacy Conference June 21 in Pomona OR June 27 in San Jose.
Amy Sutherland
01:36:13
Thank you!
Rebecca Bledsoe-Santaella
01:36:17
Thank you!!!
Nelson Graff (he, him, his)
01:36:25
That was terrific! Thank you so much!
Kayla Feather
01:36:28
Thank you so much! This is amazing
Melissa Moreno (she/her/hers)
01:36:29
Such a great metaphor! Thank you!
Ms. Nataly Garcia
01:36:30
This was amazing!
Jessica Makin
01:36:30
We appreciate you so much. Thank you!
Louise Herington
01:36:31
Thank you so much!
melissa murphy
01:36:32
This was perfecting timing! Just enough to think on until next time.
Lauren Bassard
01:36:32
I am so grateful I attended this webinar. Thank you!
Ms. Nataly Garcia
01:36:36
Thank you so much.
Diane Wilson
01:36:37
Thank you!!!
Jennifer McIntyre
01:36:39
Thank you very much!
Jennifer Coulter
01:36:41
Thank you!
Debra Robinson
01:36:43
Thank you Matt. Looking forward to your next presentation.
Sheila
01:36:44
Thank You
Madeline Majsterek
01:36:44
Thank you for the hour. Appreciate it so very much
LaResha Richardson
01:36:47
Thank you
chariesk gudgad
01:36:47
Thank you for speaking!
Jackie Hatzke
01:36:48
Thank you so much for your insight and perspective!
Cathy Maretti
01:36:49
Thanks, Matt!
Lynn Schaulis
01:36:53
This was so powerful - incredible! APPLAUSE and gratitude!
melissa murphy
01:36:58
Thank you SO much!
Kara (she/her)
01:36:59
Fantastic! I could use a whole day on this topic!
Juan Vazquez
01:37:07
Thank you! That was enlightening!
Tabitha Needham
01:37:08
Thank You